...so I continue to keep my eyes open for the right woman ...albeit am not doing all the "schemes" to try to find her ( ie dating websites, matching services etc)...I have always lived by the philosophy that if God intends me to find the right person and enter into a committed relationship it will somehow happen...rather than trying to make it happen via social engineering etc...
...every now and then I see a woman who makes me turn my head...and not just based on sex appeal..and all the right "curves" ... that's not enough anymore to make me pursue somebody..because I know that sex appeal is not enough, alone, to create a long-lasting, quality, relationship. Sure, I hope the woman I eventually marry (if it is according to God's will) maintains herself physically, but the perfect body, alone, is not the main criteria for me. Likewise, i hope the woman who finds me interesting and attractive isn't interested solely because of my great body (wink wink...i wish I had such a perfect body...I do have an "athletic" physique...but at age 46 I can't say it's in perfect shape anymore, but not too bad for my age...
...nonetheless, I hope my future woman wants more than just a man with a perfect body... but also intellect, emotions, spirituality, etc... the list goes on..