"Those who had a close alignment between what they thought they "should do" and what they thought they "would do" were considered to have high ego effectiveness..."
Wednesday, March 30, 2022
“ego effectiveness” appears to play major role in relationships " Principia Scientific Intl.
Saturday, August 7, 2021
Tuesday, March 12, 2019
Friday, November 23, 2018
JESUS IS LORD
This is what the Scripture says: "God's teaching is near you; it is in your mouth and in your heart." It is the teaching of faith that we tell people. 9 If you openly say, "Jesus is Lord" and believe in your heart that God raised him from death, you will be saved. 10 Yes, we believe in Jesus deep in our hearts, and so we are made right with God. And we openly say that we believe in him, and so we are saved.
Wednesday, September 19, 2018
"OF ONE HEART ♥️...ALL THINGS IN COMMON"
And the multitude of them that believed were of one heart and of one soul: neither said any of them that ought of the things which he possessed was his own; but they had all things common...''
Monday, September 3, 2018
that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God
"And many other signs truly did Jesus in the presence of his disciples, which are not written in this book:
31 But these are written, that ye might believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God; and that believing ye might have life through his name."
Sunday, July 29, 2018
Saturday, May 12, 2018
Thursday, February 22, 2018
" Christian YouTube Star's Sexual Purity Comments Go Viral: 'Never Too Late to Be Born-Again Virgin' "
"It is never too late to become a born-again virgin, it doesn't matter if you had sex once or 100 times and then you suddenly realize okay, this is not what I want for myself and I know this isn't what God wants for me and I want to make a change," she said. "There is nothing wrong with that."..."
LOVE ONE ANOTHER
Sunday, November 26, 2017
Sunday, October 8, 2017
Thursday, April 6, 2017
The FUTURE OF OUR WORLD MAKES ME LEERY ABOUT PRODUCING KIDS OF MY OWN "Muslim babies born will outnumber Christian births by 2035" | The Independent
Not sure i would want to raise kids in this day & age
Trust God
Sunday, April 2, 2017
Saturday, April 9, 2016
Wednesday, March 30, 2016
VIDEO: "Report: Why Men Are Giving Up On Marriage" (cards are stacked against men)
PERSONALLY, THIS IS NOT MY REASON...i just took a vow of celibacy for theological reasons..altho maybe some of this was in my subconscience...not sure..; albeit my vow is not necessarily a lifetime pledge...not like a priest..it is/was just for the time being.
http://www.infowars.com/report-why-men-are-giving-up-on-marriage/
Vk
http://www.infowars.com/report-why-men-are-giving-up-on-marriage/
Vk
Saturday, March 26, 2016
Fwd: "13 Questions to Ask Before Getting Married" - The New York Times
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"God exalted Jesus to the highest place & gave Him the name that is above every other name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should BOW, in heaven & on earth & under the earth, & every tongue CONFESS that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." Philippians 2:9-11
Wednesday, December 30, 2015
Saturday, November 7, 2015
Sunday, October 25, 2015
Monday, May 4, 2015
"The new celibacy: Why more men and women are abstaining from sex--and enjoying it:Amazon:Books
"The new celibacy:
Why more men and women are
abstaining from sex--
and enjoying it:
Amazon:Books "
"And we know that in all things God works
for the good of those who love Him,..."
Romans 8.28
for the good of those who love Him,..."
Romans 8.28
Thursday, April 2, 2015
Monday, February 9, 2015
Fwd: Study Finds More Reasons to Get and Stay Married
"Study Finds More Reasons to Get and Stay Married"
http://mobile.nytimes.com/2015/01/08/upshot/study-finds-more-reasons-to-get-and-stay-married.html
Thursday, January 15, 2015
"Marriage Is Pro-Growth "| National Review Online
"Marriage Is Pro-Growth "
| National Review Online
Monday, January 12, 2015
CAN INTENTIONAL VULNERABILITY ACCELERATE RELATIONSHIPS? "No. 37: Big Wedding or Small?" - NYTimes.com
CAN INTENTIONAL VULNERABILITY ACCELERATE RELATIONSHIPS?
"No. 37: Big Wedding or Small?" - NYTimes.com
Thursday, January 8, 2015
Saturday, December 13, 2014
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
Thursday, October 16, 2014
Wednesday, September 24, 2014
Sunday, September 21, 2014
Monday, August 4, 2014
HUH ? 7/29/14 MAKERS of "GOD's NOT DEAD" PLANNING MOVIE TO RIVAL "50 SHADES of GREY"
7/29/14 MAKERS of "GOD's NOT DEAD" PLANNING MOVIE TO RIVAL "50 SHADES of GREY" (I watched god's not dead at the Arcangel Film Fest & three of the movie's producers spoke to us afterwards. I think they are doing tremendous work "for the kingdom". God bless them!) ,search:,"old fashioned", swartzwelder,elizabeth roberts,;*read more at
http://www.christianheadlines.com/blog/creators-of-gods-not-dead-making-film-to-compete-with-fifty-shades-of-grey.html
"...."Old Fashioned" tells the story of a couple who try to engage an a Christian courtship in contemporary American society. Swartzwelder stars as the male lead Clay alongside Elizabeth Ann Roberts (Heroes, House, Black Knight) as the female lead Amber..."
http://www.christianheadlines.com/blog/creators-of-gods-not-dead-making-film-to-compete-with-fifty-shades-of-grey.html
*****
"You saw with your own eyes the great trials, the miraculous signs and wonders, the mighty hand and outstretched arm, with which the LORD your God brought you out. The LORD your God will do the same to all the peoples you now fear."Deuteronomy 7:19
,posted by vk
*DefendRealMarriage("TraditionalMarriage")
(DRuMTiMe)
*ProtectUnbornLife (Adoption!) (pula)
*Read the Bible Daily & Connect w/ Believers
(RoBDaCoB)
*Pray 4Chapels in the Public Schools (p4cps)
*Stop Violence v Women! (svw)
--Say NO 2 ALL Abusive Relationships (snaarl)
*Be a Suicide Stopper! (bass)Give Hope!
*Fight4Kindness, (f4k)
--Commit Kindness Actions (CoKA)
*LoveOneAnother (aLOhA)
*Please Support Christian Missionaries!
*I baptize you in the name of the Father-Son-&-Holy Spirit ! (Re Matt 28:18-20) (I'veBeeNFiSHing)(1 Corinthians 12:13-14,27)
*Father-Son-&-Holy-Spirit,Thy Will be Done (FiSHeS,TWilaBD)
http://www.christianheadlines.com/blog/creators-of-gods-not-dead-making-film-to-compete-with-fifty-shades-of-grey.html
"...."Old Fashioned" tells the story of a couple who try to engage an a Christian courtship in contemporary American society. Swartzwelder stars as the male lead Clay alongside Elizabeth Ann Roberts (Heroes, House, Black Knight) as the female lead Amber..."
http://www.christianheadlines.com/blog/creators-of-gods-not-dead-making-film-to-compete-with-fifty-shades-of-grey.html
*****
"You saw with your own eyes the great trials, the miraculous signs and wonders, the mighty hand and outstretched arm, with which the LORD your God brought you out. The LORD your God will do the same to all the peoples you now fear."Deuteronomy 7:19
,posted by vk
*DefendRealMarriage("TraditionalMarriage")
(DRuMTiMe)
*ProtectUnbornLife (Adoption!) (pula)
*Read the Bible Daily & Connect w/ Believers
(RoBDaCoB)
*Pray 4Chapels in the Public Schools (p4cps)
*Stop Violence v Women! (svw)
--Say NO 2 ALL Abusive Relationships (snaarl)
*Be a Suicide Stopper! (bass)Give Hope!
*Fight4Kindness, (f4k)
--Commit Kindness Actions (CoKA)
*LoveOneAnother (aLOhA)
*Please Support Christian Missionaries!
*I baptize you in the name of the Father-Son-&-Holy Spirit ! (Re Matt 28:18-20) (I'veBeeNFiSHing)(1 Corinthians 12:13-14,27)
*Father-Son-&-Holy-Spirit,Thy Will be Done (FiSHeS,TWilaBD)
Monday, July 14, 2014
"“Knot Yet”: Marriage and Other Choices "| Betsy VanDenBerghe | First Things
"“Knot Yet”:
Marriage and Other Choices "|
Betsy VanDenBerghe | First Things
Wednesday, July 9, 2014
Friday, June 27, 2014
Monday, June 23, 2014
Friday, June 20, 2014
Thursday, June 19, 2014
photos: GIRLS that GOT AWAY from ME
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BARB W
CARA H
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RACHEL R.S.
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AMY J
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OLD PICTURE BARELY MANAGED to RESTORE IT
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AMY J
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BARB W
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RACHEL S
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HEY GIRLS (ADULT WOMEN) THIS IS ME !
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KIM K
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Jesus said, "I give them eternal life, and they shall never
perish; no one can snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me,
is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father's hand. I and the
Father are one."
John 10:28-30
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
5/22/13
...so I continue to keep my eyes open for the right woman ...albeit am not doing all the "schemes" to try to find her ( ie dating websites, matching services etc)...I have always lived by the philosophy that if God intends me to find the right person and enter into a committed relationship it will somehow happen...rather than trying to make it happen via social engineering etc...
...every now and then I see a woman who makes me turn my head...and not just based on sex appeal..and all the right "curves" ... that's not enough anymore to make me pursue somebody..because I know that sex appeal is not enough, alone, to create a long-lasting, quality, relationship. Sure, I hope the woman I eventually marry (if it is according to God's will) maintains herself physically, but the perfect body, alone, is not the main criteria for me. Likewise, i hope the woman who finds me interesting and attractive isn't interested solely because of my great body (wink wink...i wish I had such a perfect body...I do have an "athletic" physique...but at age 46 I can't say it's in perfect shape anymore, but not too bad for my age...
...nonetheless, I hope my future woman wants more than just a man with a perfect body... but also intellect, emotions, spirituality, etc... the list goes on..
...every now and then I see a woman who makes me turn my head...and not just based on sex appeal..and all the right "curves" ... that's not enough anymore to make me pursue somebody..because I know that sex appeal is not enough, alone, to create a long-lasting, quality, relationship. Sure, I hope the woman I eventually marry (if it is according to God's will) maintains herself physically, but the perfect body, alone, is not the main criteria for me. Likewise, i hope the woman who finds me interesting and attractive isn't interested solely because of my great body (wink wink...i wish I had such a perfect body...I do have an "athletic" physique...but at age 46 I can't say it's in perfect shape anymore, but not too bad for my age...
...nonetheless, I hope my future woman wants more than just a man with a perfect body... but also intellect, emotions, spirituality, etc... the list goes on..
re ERICA
...SO I met a nice young adult lady...who happened to be my dental hygienest for a few months...three sessions of dental hygiene with her..she was a university student getting a nursing degree apparently with a dental hygiene emphasis(?)... anyways whatever the case may be...she was flirtatious and so I after the third session...I sent her a valentines day card and chocolates...and gave her my contact information..saying "If you like older guys like me...call me, or text me, or email me...". She must have been in her 20's...and I'm 46 so that's why I added the "older guy" comment...
...Anyways, either she was just trying to make me feel good by being flirtatious, or she was too shy to contact me...maybe she's the kind that needs to be "pursued"...albeit i said if I didn't hear from her I wouldn't bother her any further...in this day and age...a man can quickly find himself in trouble by even calling a gal or "pursuing" her in a chivalrous manner so to speak...hence it's really almost up to the girl to make the move...all the guy can do, at least in my case, is let the gal know I'm available and possibly interested...
...that's my M.O. (modus operandi). I wait to see if a gal shows interest in me...and if YES I reciprocate...and then wait.. and if nothing comes from it, that's the end, but ultimately it's up to the gal to show interest after I indicate I am available. I don't know any other way.
...so I wish ALL the BEST to Erica...she was coming to the end of her program at this university clinic and was planning on returning to the San Francisco area where she apparently already had a job lined up at a dental office. God bless you Erica...hope all goes well.
...Anyways, either she was just trying to make me feel good by being flirtatious, or she was too shy to contact me...maybe she's the kind that needs to be "pursued"...albeit i said if I didn't hear from her I wouldn't bother her any further...in this day and age...a man can quickly find himself in trouble by even calling a gal or "pursuing" her in a chivalrous manner so to speak...hence it's really almost up to the girl to make the move...all the guy can do, at least in my case, is let the gal know I'm available and possibly interested...
...that's my M.O. (modus operandi). I wait to see if a gal shows interest in me...and if YES I reciprocate...and then wait.. and if nothing comes from it, that's the end, but ultimately it's up to the gal to show interest after I indicate I am available. I don't know any other way.
...so I wish ALL the BEST to Erica...she was coming to the end of her program at this university clinic and was planning on returning to the San Francisco area where she apparently already had a job lined up at a dental office. God bless you Erica...hope all goes well.
Wednesday, April 24, 2013
WELCOME !
....SO I am now 46 years old and still unmarried, but still open to being married to the right woman, and if and when that times comes I will strive to be the perfect husband (& hopefully father) in every way... as a part of my Christian duty...to "be fruitful & multiply..."; I also believe this verse to "be fruitful" applies to being evangelical and bringing others to Christ, but it can also be applied to marriage & children..
...SO I will be posting messages now and then as my "wife search" continues..
...SO I will be posting messages now and then as my "wife search" continues..
GOD BLESS YOU ALL
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